Apr 06 2007
The 4 laws of energetic attraction: how to radically improve your health and relationships by bringing positive people and situations into your life 5
Intuitive indicator
Identifying your intuitions about people and situations moves you toward positive energy. Tune in, and trust your instincts.
POSITIVE INTUITIONS:
* You have a feeling of comforting familiarity or brightness; you may sense you’ve known the person before.
* You breathe easier; chest and shoulders are relaxed and gut is calm.
* You find yourself leaning forward, not defensively crossing your arms or edging away to keep a distance.
* Your heart opens; you feel safe, peaceful, energized, expansive or alive.
* You’re at ease with a person’s touch whether it’s a handshake, hug, or during intimacy.
NEGATIVE INTUITIONS:
* You get a sick feeling in the pit of your stomach or increased stomach acid, which may prompt an unpleasant sense of deja vu.
* You’re jumpy and instinctively withdraw if touched.
* Your shoulder muscles knot; your chest area or throat constricts; you notice aggravated aches or pains.
* The hair on the back of your neck stands on end.
* You feel a sense of malaise, darkness, pressure, agitation or being drained.
accentuate the positive
We all have our good and bad points. What sets positive people apart, though, is a determination to do their best, and not succumb to what’s negative in themselves or in what’s around them.
POSITIVE PEOPLE ARE:* Committed to developing compassion toward themselves and others, and having an open heart.
* Courageous about following their dreams.
* Authentic; they believe in themselves, even when the world is crumbling around them.
* Aware of their dark side and are trying to heal it.
* Willing to learn from their mistakes.
POSITIVE PEOPLE AREN’T:
* Obsessed with seeming perfect or positive all the time.
* Beating themselves to a pulp over their shortcomings or foundering in a black hole of pessimism.
* Constantly mired in fear or tolerant of letting their hearts harden.
* Squeaky-clean do-gooders who neglect their own well-being.
* Saccharine pleasers who ignore their dark side and unconsciously act it out at the expense of others.
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Adapted from Positive Energy by Judith Orloff, M.D. http://www.drjudithorloff.com. Judith Orloff, M.D., is a board-certified psychiatrist and assistant professor of psychiatry at UCLA who presents workshops and lectures throughout the world. She is also a bestselling author.
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I agree totally with this post. I am a very positive person myself.
Great article! Equipped with the correct mindset will bring us to the next step, how to conform changes.
Change comes from one of two sources. First, we may be driven to change out of desperation. Sometimes our circumstances can become so out-of-control that we almost abandon our search for answers because our lives seem to be filled only with irresolvable questions. But it is this overwhelming sense of desperation that finally drives us to look for the solutions. Desperation is the final and inevitable result of months or years of accumulated neglect that brings us to that point in time where we find ourselves driven by urgent necessity to find immediate answers to life’s accumulated challenges.
The second source that drives us to make changes in our lives is inspiration. Hopefully this is where you find yourself right now - about to become sufficiently inspired to make major and dramatic changes in your life as a result of the message I am about to share with you.
Inspiration can come to us at any time and from many sources. A song can inspire us, a book can inspire us, as can an effective and moving speech. The story of someone who has succeeded in spite of difficulty can stir our emotions. Inspiration, from whatever the source, arouses feelings within us that rekindle hope, ambition and determination. It is a momentary whisper of encouragement and reassurance that causes us to become aware of our potential. We sense a spark of desire, and our minds flash from one possibility to another, each thought laden with the promise of future success and happiness…
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The Spark Family