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The 4 laws of energetic attraction: how to radically improve your health and relationships by bringing positive people and situations into your life 3
By Other Authors | March 20, 2007
LAW NO. 3: Seeing the beauty and goodness in people magnetizes them.
INSTEAD OF REFLEXIVELY ACCENTUATING THE WORST IN A PERSON OR SITUATION, CHOOSE TO ENERGIZE POSITIVE QUALITIES. The object isn’t to flatter, make nice, be politically correct or ignore intuitive red flags–nor to deny someone’s dark side or placate abusers. Your goal is to mine the gold in positive relationships and elevate the communication in more difficult ones.
When I intuitively read someone’s energy, I see it as crystal-clear light with an intelligence that responds when recognized. When I say to a depressed patient, “You have shown incredible courage,” a little flame in him starts flickering. “I’m here,” his courage cries from a distance. Or if I remark, “You look lovely today,” to a patient who’s insanely stressed, immediately a part in her softens.
We’re all starving to have the goodness in us acknowledged. If you want to connect with someone, notice his or her assets. Let’s say a co-worker is snitty. Realize that happy people don’t act this way. So instead of being shitty back or constantly miffed, redirect the energy. Comment on the long hours she puts in, or her dynamite shoes. Use this approach for a week–as well as the ones below–and watch the vibes change.
Tell at least two people you love what you’re grateful for about them.
Tell at least two people you don’t love what you’re grateful for about them.
Adjust your perception. Spend an afternoon noticing the goodness and beauty of everyone you meet.
Praise other people’s abilities. Say to a gas-station attendant or cashier, “You’re doing a great job,” magic words that can make a person’s day. Move on to your mate, co-workers or friends.
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Adapted from Positive Energy by Judith Orloff, M.D. http://www.drjudithorloff.com. Judith Orloff, M.D., is a board-certified psychiatrist and assistant professor of psychiatry at UCLA who presents workshops and lectures throughout the world. She is also a bestselling author.
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