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Jul 29 2009

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Seven Uplifting Strategies to Reawaken Your Joy and Passion for Life

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If you are suffering from burnout, disappointment, or feeling stuck in a life that’s not working for you, take heart! These seven stepping stones will guide you along an empowering path to renewed energy and zest for life.

1. Shore up your energy for change. When you are feeling defeated, resist the urge to push yourself into action to fix your life. Instead, slow down and recharge your batteries. Acknowledge that your resources have been drained by the stress of a life chronically out of whack. Give yourself a nurturing gift by making a conscious choice to rejuvenate your body, mind and spirit. Embarking on a big change when you are depleted of energy and enthusiasm may get you somewhere, but probably not where you really want to go.

2. Resurrect the dreams you left behind. Spend some quality time alone with your thoughts and a journal. Write about your needs, your desires and your dreams. Take a trip down memory lane and remember the things that used to bring a smile to your face, the things you enjoyed when you were younger and life was simpler. What were your hopes for the future? What is your highest aspiration for your life now? If there were no obstacles, what would you be doing with your life?

3. Conquer your inner critic and limiting beliefs. Beware of the ugly inner critic that wants to nip this “flight of fantasy’ thing in the bud. Pay attention to the negative, critical messages that stop you from taking steps in a new direction. Become an observer of your inner dialog and decide who you want in charge of your life: your inner critic or your inner coach? Allow your inner coach to expand your belief in what is possible.

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4. Find joy in the journey. Short-circuit the “I’ll be happy when…” syndrome by choosing to consciously dwell in positive thought and feeling. Make a choice to spend more time noticing what is right with your life and what is right with you rather than feeding the cycle of negativity by magnifying what seems to be wrong or missing from your life. Positive feelings such as gratitude, appreciation, love, and compassion for yourself and others will energize you and propel you toward a brighter future.

5. Imagine you are already where you want to be. Spend time playing in your imagination. Not only is it okay to daydream, it’s a vital step in redesigning your life. Allow yourself to vividly imagine the life that would bring you the greatest joy and satisfaction. Then write about what you envision in clear, concise, emphatic, and energizing words. An empowering vision for your future will lift you out of the doldrums and into action!

6. Create an inspiring life plan. Support your vision with a detailed plan for your new life. What needs to change in order for you to experience a rich and robust quality of life? Look at each aspect of your life that is important to you and make a conscious decision to fill in those missing pieces. Declare your intentions in writing, and then make a commitment to take action to carry out your plan.

7. Navigate the bumps in the road. Allow for imperfections! If things do not go as planned, or if something comes out of left field to knock you off track, let it be. Tend to the crisis or detour, but hold onto your vision. The path between where you are and where you want to be may not unfold in a straight line. Look for the gift in the situation and get back on track as soon as you can. Persistence and patience are important keys to transforming your life.

Celebrate every baby step along the way, because in time, each step will add up to a giant leap. And before you know it, your dreams will have become your new reality!

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Lauren E. Sullivan is the author of Give Wings to Your Dreams: Reawaken Your Joy and Passion for Life. An expert in women’s life change issues, she leads “Life Choice Retreats” in Santa Barbara, California, to help women in job burnout, midlife crisis, empty-nest syndrome, or divorce recovery to find a sense of life purpose, work/life balance and to improve quality of life. Website: www.InspiredLifeDesign.com.

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Jul 24 2009

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Creating A Gratitude Journal

grate.ful adj. 1 a : appreciative of benefits received: syn. thankful

4.19.02 Today I am grateful for _______________ .

As I write the above line, I wonder, “What is my answer?” My first thought is, “I am grateful for today.” Then I realize there are so many people, places and things for which I am grateful. Everyday the list grows.

Everyday there are things that happen to us, and for us, that make us grateful. Sometimes, we even find, that after the passage of time, we become grateful. Take time today, tomorrow, and the next to think about for what or whom you are grateful. Then, write it down in your journal. Or maybe send a letter or a card, with dates and experiences to that person.

You can start keeping a journal where you date and write in daily, weekly, or monthly about what you are grateful for, why and the circumstances that created the gratitude. This becomes a story and record of your feelings and warm experiences of what you have given, and also what you have received.

You can also create individual gratitude journals for your spouse, your children, parents, a friend, etc., that you journal in for a period of time. You can write about them sharing what you are grateful for about them. Get a new journal to use for this purpose only. Pick a colored pen or several colors. You can express your feelings with certain colors, green for a growth memory, blue for peaceful times, you decide what each color means and note that in the front of the journal. Date each entry and describe events, memories, or thoughts that you have about that person. Describe what they have given you, what you have observed, what you wish for them. Tell them about how grateful you are for them in your life, and why. This becomes a treasured keepsake and a priceless gift.

Telling someone you are grateful for them in your life, for what they have done, for who they are is a very powerful expression of caring and love. Telling a stranger who has given you something, directions, good service, a smile, that you are grateful for what they have done and given you is another form of connection. Spread the idea of gratitude. You may see something on TV or read about someone. Send them an email or letter of appreciation for who they are, what they stand for, or for what they have done.

Today I am grateful for _______________ fill-in this blank with what your are grateful for.

For Example – My self, my children, family, work, future, my recovery, etc.

As I was thinking about what I am grateful for, I of course thought of my many wonderful, dear friends. So, I decided to email and ask what they were grateful for. I asked them if I could also share their responses with you, and here they are.

“Today I am grateful that I get to spend time with my children.”

“Today I am thankful for a generous heart that loves to spill over to others…and is constantly replenished by my beautiful family.”

“Today I am Grateful for the joy of friends. Today I am grateful for the light in the eyes of my friends. Today I am grateful for the roses in my garden. I am so very grateful I met you.”

“Today I am grateful that I can continually forgive myself. I can forgive myself for judging myself harshly when things don’t turn out just the way I was attached to them turning out. I can forgive myself when I am disappointed that I didn’t speak up and say exactly how I felt about a situation. I can forgive myself because when I did speak up, it didn’t come out of my mouth the way my mind thought it would. All in all, I am very grateful that I am me. I wouldn’t want to be anyone else in the whole world…. and that’s gratitude!”

“Today I am grateful for a wife, 4 children and a daughter-in-law who are all working hard to find out what it is their Savior would have them do in life and then do it.”

“Today I am grateful for another experience of realizing that I am, indeed, safe and provided for.”

“I am grateful for days, like today, when my gratitude gallops gleefully ahead of me and I have to skip to keep up with it, instead of haul it behind me like a wagon load of manure, hoping it will carry its own weight – by tomorrow.”

“I am very grateful for the healing work that I do. I work long, hard hours,but I really enjoy helping people feel better. How many people can say that they love their work or feel that they are doing exactly what they are supposed to be doing?”

“Today, I am grateful for a Loving God who nutures me. I am grateful for my 89 year old Mother who has cared for me and is still vibrant, helpful, and alive. I am grateful for my Granddaughter Hayley who holds my hand, trusts me, and I know loves me somewhere in her very special heart. I am grateful for good health which sustains me. I am grateful for my friends and acquaintances who care about me and bring so much joy into my life. And, finally, I am grateful for libraries, and the internet, and transportation which constantly open new vistas in my horizon and let me apreciate this vast world and its infinite knowledge and power available to all those who are curious enough and ambitious enough to embrace them.”

“Today I am grateful for gentle friends, and a loving Heavenly Father.”

“I am grateful for the Divine Connections in my life – My family and friends. We laugh and cry together.With them I feel I belong and am loved. They are my greatest teachers. We validate each other. When depleted I seek them out. They renew my spirit I am blessed. I am also grateful for the roadblocks and failures in my life. They turned out to be valuable lessons that led me to new opportunities and connections I wouldn’t have had otherwise. They presented new Lifepaths.”

“Today I am grateful for all the wonderful people in my life who challenge me to think differently.”

“The scent of freshly cut grass coming through my open windows.”

“Today I am grateful for opening my eyes to see my husband on my side and my pug at my feet. I am grateful to look out my bedroom windows to see another day full of possibility as the sun slowly warms up my sweet backyard alive with quail, doves, hummingbirds, rabbits and all kinds of natures noises. I am grateful to feel my breath as it wanders through my body waking me up. I am grateful that I have one more day to enjoy, and be amazed, and be involved with life. And I am very grateful that I can go through another day full of awe and gratitude.”

“Today, I am grateful for my life, health, and for my mother still being alive.”

“I’m grateful for the support of many, many wonderful women in the community.”

“I am grateful for being able to carry the message that Light and Love is always present and everlasting. I get to do this on a moment to moment daily basis. I am grateful for all the loving people that I am blessed with in my life. I am grateful that the universe provides completely and abundantly. I am grateful to be alive and living full out.”

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May 12 2009

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LOVE that Liberates vs. “Love” that Enslaves

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I find this article very inspiring and agree 100% with how the author distinguished the two kinds of love. I have been enslaved by “love” but it was also love that liberated me. I think many people have gone through the same experience. To those who are in love, and those who are broken-hearted, please read this article.

This article is owned and copyrighted by Maria Seferou. Her short biography appears at the end of the article. To Maria Seferou, thank you for this wonderful article. -Joann
   

There is no doubt that love is the highest virtue in human interrelationships and the mother of all virtues. It is the spiritual cement that holds the world together, and the basic ingredient of happiness both for the giver as well as the recipient. But we must distinguish between genuine love and fake love. There is love that liberates and “love” that binds, love that edifies the soul and uplifts the spirit, and fake love that becomes an attachment, seeking to control and enslave the recipient, demanding blind submission.


There is healthy love and “love” that becomes almost a torture, a psychological sickness. Healthy love has its roots in our Spirit and it springs forth from our heart, while fake love stems from our instincts and inflated ego, which it seeks to gratify. Real love is the greatest fruit of the Spirit within, but feigned love is the product of insecurity and selfishness, and it begets jealousy, a very destructive vice. Sound love expects nothing, but carnal love expects too much in return. Whole love goes hand-in-hand with wisdom and truth, but fake love deceives. Genuine love is rare, although we are often deceived into believing that we truly love.


It is to our benefit to distinguish between spiritual love and carnal love. The difference between them is striking. But how many of us are interested in detecting and transforming our carnal love into the highest form of love? How many of us, and how often are we consciously endeavoring to offer true love to fellow human beings? How difficult is this? It is certainly not easy at all, and it often hurts… Some said that healthy love is an art; indeed it is the greatest art, but just like every art, it requires inspiration!


Knowing how to truly love does not come by studying and following a set of rules. Head knowledge won’t take us very far with love, but spiritual enlightenment and heart transformation will. Spiritual love is spontaneous, but carnal love is subtly calculated to serve one’s own interests. We cannot work for true love to manifest in us; it comes only when our heart is ready for it. It just springs forth and, as a divine force, it heals whomsoever it touches. And, behold, the more we offer true love the more it grows in perfection. As we share it with others, it increases within us and we have it in abundance. The fountain of true love never dries up. Genuine love is also peaceful and peacemaking. Oh, how does our violent and hatred-tormented world need the divine touch of pure LOVE!


Love is the heart of Christian teaching. I am sure when Jesus preached love he was talking about spiritual, i.e. unselfish love. He said, “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.” (John 13:34) However, contrary to the popular belief that love was Jesus’ new commandment, we also find similar exhortations to love one another in the Old Testament. Just to put the records straight, I shall quote a few verses from the O.T. that refer to love: “You shall not take vengeance or bear any grudge against the sons of your own people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself. I am the Lord.” (Lev. 19: 18)


Here is another O.T. instruction to love each other that includes the aliens: “This is what the Lord of hosts says: ‘Administer true justice, show mercy and compassion to one another. Do not oppress the widow or the fatherless, the alien or the poor; and let none of you device evil against his brother in your heart’.” (Zech. 7: 9-10) Love should embrace even the strangers: “He (God) executes justice for the fatherless and the widow, and loves the stranger, giving him food and clothing. Love the stranger therefore; for you were strangers in the land of Egypt.” (Deut. 10: 18-19) It is amazing that the highest spiritual standards of love were put forward even in the O.T. era, when the “eye for an eye” practice was prevalent! “Let not steadfast love and faithfulness forsake you; bind them around your neck; write them on the tablet of your heart”, says Solomon. (Prov. 3: 3) True love can only be “written” on the “tablet” of one’s heart! But King Solomon went even further: “Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all offenses.” (Prov. 10:12) Here we have a hint to forgiveness, so familiar in Jesus’ teaching!


Could, peradventure, too much love harm anyone? Yes, definitely! If love is given indiscriminately and unwisely to a person, whether a spouse, one’s children, or friend, then it harms both the giver and the recipient of love. It spoils the recipient by nurturing his/her vanity and ingratitude, and it drains the giver. While the giver is totally unselfish and does not expect anything in return, with his/her sacrificial love one blocks the path of the recipient towards spiritual progress and emotional maturity and stability. On the other hand, the giver is breaking the sovereign law of reciprocity and neglects his/her duty to also love him/herself.


The instruction given by Jesus is: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” (Mat. 22:39) Not loving oneself is neither spiritual nor beneficial, as it emotionally starves one’s soul. We need to first love ourselves in order to be able to love others in an edifying way. We must take proper care of our physical, emotional and spiritual needs in order to be able to offer healthy love to others. There must be a balance. Even Jesus, a giant of love, expected gratitude when he healed the10 lepers. Here is the relevant account: “And as he entered a village, he was met by ten lepers, who stood at a distance and lifted up their voices, saying, ‘Jesus, Master, have mercy on us.’ When he saw them he said to them, ‘Go and show yourselves to the priests.’ And as they went they were cleansed. Then one of them, when he saw that he was healed, turned back, praising God with a loud voice; and he fell on his face at Jesus’ feet, giving him thanks. And he was a Samaritan. Then Jesus answered, ‘Were not ten cleansed? Where are the nine?’” (Luke 17: 12-17)

Which are the fundamental characteristics of true love? St. Paul gave a most beautiful short treatise on love in his 1st Epistle to Corinthians. For the sake of completeness of this article, I shall quote those verses, although, I am sure they are familiar to most people who have a basic knowledge of the Bible.


“If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have the gift of prophecy and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give away all I have, and if I deliver my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing. Love is longsuffering, and is kind; love does not envy, is not impertinent, and it does not boast; love is not rude, does not seek her own, is not irritable, and does not think evil; love does not delight in injustice but rejoices in the truth; love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends;(…)” (1 Cor. 13: 1-8a)

When I first came across the above verses, I wondered how anyone could deliver one’s body to be burned or give away all one’s possessions without having love… Apparently, this is possible. One could be doing it out of selfish motives, and this is not genuine love. True love penetrates every particle of one’s body, and expresses itself in faith, unselfishness, kindness, forgiveness, patience, longsuffering, meekness, tranquility, hopefulness, endurance, and primarily wisdom! This should be the ideal and the goal of every enlightened person: to be perfected in love. If we truly love, we will avoid offending and harming anyone, for we do not like to grieve a fellow human being. So, perfect love, which, by the way, drives out fear, also prevents us from transgression. Wouldn’t we all desire to be harmless to others?


In this article, I purposely avoided referring to the first part of Jesus’ great commandment, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” (Mat 22:37), as I am trying to reach with the message of love even the atheists. Besides, how can we practically show our love to God? It is only through loving fellow humans, even our enemies, since God lives in all. This is why St. John wrote: “If anyone says, ‘I love God,’ and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen.” (1 John 4:20) Yet, to my understanding, loving God means loving our higher Self within and surrendering our will to the will of the Spirit within, which is the essence of God in us. The problem, however, is how to accurately discern the “still small voice” of the Spirit within. Unfortunately, people can be deceived by many ‘voices’, all seemingly coming from within, and be led to destruction. But this is a different subject…


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Maria Seferou was born in an agricultural family of Dendron, a small village of Peloponnese, Greece. She studied Civil/Structural Engineering at National Technical University of Athens and had a successful 20-year professional career both in Greece and in England. For the last 22 years she has been a writer of non-fiction books and articles on religious, philosophical, political and social issues.

 


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