Sep 16 2009
Manifesting Love with The Law of Attraction
The law of attraction says, we attract into our reality the objects/situations that matched our predominant thoughts. The quality of our thoughts shapes the kind of person we are, so we also attract the people who are like us.
Take this story for example:
One afternoon, Nasruddin and his friend were sitting in a cafe, drinking tea, and talking about life and love. “How come you never got married, Nasruddin?” asked his friend at one point. “Well,” said Nasruddin, “to tell you the truth, I spent my youth looking for the perfect woman. In Cairo, I met a beautiful and intelligent woman, with eyes like dark olives, but she was unkind. Then in Baghdad, I met a woman who was a wonderful and generous soul, but we had no interests in common. One woman after another would seem just right, but there would aways be something missing. Then one day, I met her. She was beautiful, intelligent, generous and kind. We had everything in common. In fact she was perfect.” “Well,” said Nasruddin?s friend, “what happened? Why didn’t you marry her? Nasruddin sipped his tea reflectively. “Well,” he replied, “it’s a sad thing. Seems she was looking for the perfect man.”
Nasruddin attracted for himself a woman just like him, “someone who’s looking for the perfect partner.” If he had made himself into a perfect man according to his own ideals, he would have found and married the perfect woman.
When using the law of attraction to manifest a romantic relationship in your life, you have to be the kind of person you want to attract yourself. If you are on the chubby side, don’t focus on attracting men who are lean, or muscular. Open yourself up also to the men who have the same body build as you have. If you don’t like chubby men, lose weight first.
That is the second important requirement. The first is loving yourself.
In order to start using the law of attraction for romance, international relationship expert and renowned hypnotherapist, Tanya Haden Tebb suggested you start answering these seven questions:
1. Define the type of relationship you want
“I want to meet the man of my dreams,” isn’t going to cut it. Be specific (e.g., “I want to find a husband who is passionate about his career and loves kids. He enjoys cycling and picnics in the park.” or “I desire to have a wild love affair with a French man who has curly black hair and brown eyes.” or “I would love to go on a romantic date with a man who buys me flowers and makes me laugh.”).
2. How does this man treat you?
(e.g., He takes me out to dinner, buys me flowers, holds my hand, finds my jokes funny, tells me I am beautiful, pampers me and treats me like a princess, rubs my feet after a long day…)
3. How does it feel when you are with him?
(e.g., I tremble when he brushes past me, my heart beats faster when I hear his name, we talk and talk for hours as if we have known each other for years, I feel safe when his strong arms are around me, it is like music to my ears when I hear his laughter…)
4. What does he look like?
(e.g., He has a warm smile, big muscles, blonde hair and green eyes, black hair and brown eyes, curly brown hair, tall/short, dark/fair skinned, freckles…))
5. What does he do for fun?
(e.g., Work out at the gym, listen to/play music, cycle, play golf/football/tennis, eat out, go to bars/clubs, hiking, mountain climbing, reading, swimming, travel…)
6. Where will you meet this man?
(e.g., I meet him at an airport, sports bar, night club, on the internet, through friends, by chance, at a wedding, in the grocery/video store, library, at the beach, gym, tennis club…)
7. How will you know you’ve found him?
(e.g., He proposes to me on a starry night. We are lying together on a sandy beach listening to the waves crashing against the shore. I wake up in the morning to find him making me breakfast in the kitchen. Our eyes meet across a crowded room and he comes over and asks me to dance…) [1]
Ms. Tebb should add another question to this list and it should be placed at number 1. The list should include, “Will I be attracted to myself ?”
The law of attraction will always work for you if you let it. And before you get busy with your “man project” (or woman project) remember to look for love for the sake of sharing love, not just because you want to be loved. Relationships require commitment and commitment requires selflessness. This is the reason why you have to learn to love yourself first.
Good Luck!
Resource Box:
Joann Ang. She discovered the Law of Attraction by asking a question. Since then she has become an eager student of the lessons of the universe. She owns the website Manifesting with the Law of Attraction.
End Note:
[1] From “Is The Law Of Attraction Broken? How Do I Find My Soulmate When I Can’t Even Get A Date!” by Tanya Haden Tebb. If you are ready to learn more about dating, relationships, men, and attracting (and keeping) your Mr. Right, then you are ready for the newly released groundbreaking eBook, “How to Attract Men—The Goddess Secrets.” Written by acclaimed International Relationship Expert and Renowned Hypnotherapist, Tanya Haden Tebb. Visit http://www.how-to-attract-men.com/attract_men.html to get one step closer to attracting him starting now.
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3 responses so far
There is one very important point left out in this article… It is to do your best to detach from the “want,” “need,” or “desire for your partner.” The human mind is very complex and there are unconscious thoughts happening at the same time your conscious thoughts happen. Recognize how much emotional investment you have into that ideal love partner, and do your best to detach from that. It is true that things often happen, once you let them go.
Great post! This is very helpful. I’m sure I’d visit your site more often.
Amazing post! It sounds so true. It is indeed about being rather than having. Your expression is terrific. Thanks a lot.